:: ISNA datang lagik ::
Saturday:
The Tongue : walking the talk all the way to Jannah
by Imam Mokhtar.
alhamdulillah, ramai sungguh org kat Rosemont B. semua nak dgr smbg Imam mokhtar nyer lecture about purification, setiap pg dan ptg....tp kami miss yg pagi nyer session, heart & mind.
dalam lecture ni, Imam Mokthar gave some examples about how Nabi used his tounge to say a good things. for example, one day Nabi walked with Aishah, and some youth greeted him ' Samualaikum = death be upon you ' and Nabi replied ' waalaikum = be upon you too'. Aishah got agrier and she replied ' death be upon you too and curse you..........[ with other cursing words]'. Hearing Aishah cursing the youth, Nabi said to Aishah ' take it easy'. Here we can learn 2 'clear' message from Nabi :
1. When someone is cursing/ talking to you with a bad words, you need to think carefully what to reply. Dont use bad words.
2. Dont scold someone who curse back, but try to calm him.
Nabi told Aishah to be gentle and he did that withgentleness.
Second example, about one man peeing in Masjid Nabi. People in the masjid were mad with him,a nd when Nabi entered the masjid, he stopped the jemaah from harming the person, and explaining to the person why he can't pee in the masjid ( there's a hadith about this, check it out )
Nabi says ( check Hadith yerk )
1. " tell to my umat, say only good things and ahsan ( yg terbaik)"
2. "speak khairan ( anything yg baik & ada connection dgn Allah ) or keep quiet "
Love is sign of Faith, Hate is a sign of hypocrisy
by Altaf Hussien
Nabi says ' you dont enter jannah until you belief and you dont belief until you love one anaother.
Ada bnyk hadith pasal brotherhood
example:
1. Abu Bakar percaya nabi ke israk mikraj, and ketika nabi wafat. dia juga membebaskan Bilal.
2. Umar al Khattab benci akan umat islam masa kafir, tetapi setelah dia jadi muslim dia sangat sayang dgn Islam ( bkn ni cth dia )
Sunday:
Anger Management 101
Imam Al Shareef
1.From Abu hurairah ra " on day a man came to the prophet, 'please advice me' and nabi said ' dont get angry' . he came again and again and that what Nabi answered him.
2.Abdullah Al Mubarak kata ' ;eft aside you anger, tp summarizekan good characters. esp masa kita tgh bengang2 dgn kwn kita, lupakan sengkete tu....tp igt apa kebaikan dia...dgn itu dpt hilang sedikit anger kita tu
3 kenapa iblis x sujud pd nabi Adam as? iblis got angry, pastu dia arrogant sbb konon2 dia aa yg the best makhluk, then dia x sujud... kita bleh kata yg anger tu yg membuatkan benda2 jahat lps tu dtg...hinggalaa iblis jadi jahat hingga skrg.
4. semua benda yg haram dtg sbb anger
5. ' the noble of anger is when it's channeling with hikmah' !. cth? kalo org tanya kita. kenapa hafal 5 surahs jerk? kita pon bengang2...tp tunggu! ...jgn kita pukul dia...tp kita review balik...'aah btol kata cikgu, saya sepatutnyer hafal lebih bnyk surah'...so kita pon terus merajinkan diri utk hafal bnyk surah...:)
6. prophet from his sunnah he always smlling. kalo ada org langgar batasan agama yg buatkan dia angry, org2 akan senyap.....selalu nabi dia x kan jerit2 marah2....tp dia akan bg signs ( cth nyer x pandang muka)...so org tau dia angry ( ada cth ni...tp lupa citer full dia )
7. anger immediately move to action. cth, nabi masuk dlm rumah and nampak gambar tergantung, and dia terus koyakkan ambar tu ( hadith full dia ada...check nanti)
8 Nabi Ibrahim, dia kapakkan idol2, and bila org tanya...sapa yg kapakkan idol yg besar sekali tu, dia kata ' tanyala pd idol tu'..org tu kata ' idol x leh ckp' nabi ibrahim kata' kalo x leh ckp asal sembah'?.....kita lihat bagai mana Nabi ibrahim control marah dia....kalo kita lama sudah kita curse org2 kafir tu...
9. jgn curse sb tu doa. esp kpd parents, jgn curse anak kita ' cth.....pergilaa main, pergi main bola sampai lewat mlm, biar x balik'....doa tu....kalo btol2 Allah kabulkan, anak tu x balik sampai bila2.
10. sbb ada 2 malaikat kita yg akan kata ' Amin and for you the same '
11. nak kawen?. kalo nak, doakan kawan kita tu in their absence. pastu nanti Allah & Malaikat akan amin kan and juga mendoakan kita :)
12. Anger is not a reaction but it's a choice.
Altaf Hussien
1. kalo kta x leh control anger, mcm mana nak suruh org supaya jgn marah?
2. focus with the issue, bkn org tue...sbb selalu kalo kita gaduh, ia meleret2 sampai ke personal things
3 we can still win with gentleness, not by getting angry.
--bersambung
Rujukan Penuh hadith/ayat quran
hadith
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet said, "Whoever possesses the following three qualities will have the sweetness (delight) of faith:
1. The one to whom Allah and His Apostle becomes dearer than anything else.
2. Who loves a person and he loves him only for Allah's sake.
3. Who hates to revert to Atheism (disbelief) as he hates to be thrown into the fire."
Anas, may Allah be pleased with him, reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace and blessings be upon him) observed: The sign of a hypocrite is the hatred against the
Ansar and the sign of a believer is the love for the
Ansar. (sahih Muslim 108)
thanks omar for sharing... :)